Proven, empathy-based techniques that calm tantrums, build resilience, and strengthen the bond between you and your child.
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An empathy-based approach grounded in neuroscience that rewires how your child's brain responds to stress, frustration, and big emotions.
Match your child's emotional energy to create a moment of genuine understanding before anything else.
Mirror their feelings through tone and body language so they feel truly seen and heard.
Give space for the full emotional experience without rushing to fix, lecture, or dismiss.
Reflect their feelings back to them, building the neural pathways for self-regulation and resilience.
Whether you're a parent looking for immediate help or a professional seeking certification, there's a program for you.
An immersive online course teaching you the complete CALM technique. Transform how you parent in weeks, not years. Self-paced with lifetime access.
Start LearningGo deeper with Jennifer in a small-group cohort. Six weeks of live training, real case studies, and personalized voice-note coaching to master the CALM technique.
Join the CohortA 4-month professional training for therapists, coaches, and educators. Become a certified Connected Parenting practitioner and bring this method to your clients.
Learn MoreWork directly with Jennifer or a trained Connected Parenting therapist. Tailored guidance for your family's unique challenges and dynamics.
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Jennifer is a child and family therapist, bestselling author, and the founder of Connected Parenting. For over 30 years, she has helped families transform their most challenging moments into opportunities for deeper connection.
Her empathy-based CALM technique is grounded in neuroscience and attachment theory, and has been featured on major media outlets across North America. Jennifer trains thousands of parents and professionals each year through her courses, certification program, and top-rated podcast.
"Jennifer is someone who can walk into a room and transform the behavior of a child almost instantly. I've never seen anything like it. Her method is truly remarkable."
— Michael Kearns, Psychotherapist"Jennifer Kolari helps parents understand the profound importance of emotional connection in shaping their child's developing brain. Her work is both scientifically grounded and deeply practical."
"In a world that often confuses discipline with disconnection, Jennifer offers parents a compassionate, effective alternative. Her CALM technique is a gift to every family that discovers it."
"Within two weeks of using the CALM technique, our evening meltdowns went from daily to almost never. I finally feel like I know what I'm doing as a parent."
— Sarah M., Mother of two"My strong-willed 7-year-old and I were constantly butting heads. Jennifer's approach changed our entire relationship. He actually comes to me now when he's upset instead of shutting down."
— David K., Father"I'm a therapist and took the certification. It completely changed how I work with families. The CALM technique gives parents something concrete they can use immediately."
— Dr. Rachel T., Family TherapistDiscover the five mindset shifts that transform how your child responds to you. This free video training is the single best place to start your Connected Parenting journey.
Watch the Free TrainingJennifer's books bring the Connected Parenting method to your bookshelf.
The essential guide to raising resilient, emotionally healthy children through empathy and connection.
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Surviving the teen years with connection and humor — a guide for parents navigating the adolescent storm.
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